Thinkin's by The Ty
Sunday, September 4, 2016
My Frustration with Canadian Police
Saturday, August 6, 2016
The REAL Benefit of Martial Arts in Youth
When I was eleven, I was awarded my red (brown) belt. At this stage, it was mandatory to break boards to gain further rank. I was okay at forms, and acceptable at sparring, but board breaks were terrifying. There was no grading, either the boards broke, or they didn't. And real pine boards don't lie. If your technique is off, you're going to make a thunk, not a snap. If you're really unlucky, you're going to make a crunch.
Rewind to yellow belt. I was 8 years old, and we were practicing punches. My punches were sloppy, and I didn't care about technique. I was just going through the motions because my instructor told me so. She put a board in front of me and told me to punch it. I made a thunk, and it really hurt. She corrected my technique, and told me next time, the board had better break. Every time we did punching drills after that, I was very cognizant of my technique, and always working to improve upon it.
Fast forwarding back to red belt, we had some options. We had to break the board using an elbow strike, and a choice between a front kick and a side kick. We had three attempts. I requested special permission to use a reverse punch instead of an elbow strike, because it was important to me to prove to myself that I had mastered that technique since being a yellow belt. After getting my parents to sign a waiver, I was allowed to make the attempt, on the condition that I also forfeited my choice to do a front kick and attempted a side kick instead.
During our Testing Ceremony at East Longview Hall, I completed my forms, my one-steps, and my sparring. I got a few minutes rest while the higher ranks went through their tests before the board breaking part commenced. I didn't even really watch, even though the black belts were always fun to watch. I spent the whole time visualizing the punch. When it was finally my turn, I set up my two break stations, just as I had been coached the previous week. After receiving permission to begin my attempt, I lined up the punch, and blew through it beautifully. That was my first board break. Everyone cheered, because my instructor explained why I was doing it, and explained the higher difficulty and risk level. The thing with punching solid objects is the bones in your hand are actually very small and easily broken. If the board doesn't break, your hand probably will.
Riding the euphoric high of the accomplishment and all the cheering, I lined up my side kick, and missed. I made three thunks. My heart totally sunk. After I had accomplished so much with my punch, I failed my test anyways. I still felt proud of what I had accomplished. Following me, my instructor made one of the fully grown black belts attempt a punch, and that resulted in a bloody broken hand. There was some controversy and a lot of hard feelings around that decision, but from where I was sitting, it really illustrated just what I had accomplished.
Now began the Saga of Ty's Side Kick. Much like my punch, I needed to master that kick. Mastering that kick took a long goddamn time. I used to get so frustrated, I almost stopped training. My parents wouldn't let me stop. My dojang had testing ceremonies quarterly, and it took me about 3 years to master that particular technique and actually pass my test. 12 tests later, I finally got some stripes on my belt. In hindsight, it wasn't really fair in competition, because I was the most experienced red belt in just about ever. Once I got some stripes on my belt, I STILL had trouble breaking boards in tests. 2 more years would pass before I received black belt at 16 years old. Of course at 16, I was getting big enough I could easily power my way through a single board, so now I was breaking two.
As a black belt, in practice and in competition, my side kick became famous. I had studied it so much that I could throw a side kick from any position, any stance, with or without a jump, and with or without a spin, and it couldn't be stopped unless you practiced with me a lot. I would find your ribcage or chin every time. I won international tournaments with that kick. Just a couple of months ago, I was visiting a friend I hadn't seen in a long time, and he told me he had heard stories of that kick from a Karateka I used to play with. My battle with the boards had given me an extremely valuable gift.
A year later, when I was allowed to test for my Second Dan, I choked on my board breaks again. They STILL created a mental block for me. I failed another test. I had grown into a liked and respected Student Instructor, and I actually coached a lot of others through their board breaks. I was widely regarded as an expert in the field, but I still couldn't overcome the pressure! 3 months later, I was allowed to attempt again, and this time I made it through on my third attempt, and while I was very happy I passed, I was so upset that boards were STILL a challenge for me.
When I tested for my Third Dan two years later, I was really nervous for my board breaks. I hadn't tested in two years (mandatory waiting period for my rank), and I was going up against my old nemesis once again. I completed all my forms (exhausting), I performed various self defense techniques, and then I sparred with every other black belt and a couple of red belts (super exhausting). I tried so hard to rest while the red belts were completing their board breaks so I would be fresh for mine, but everyone wanted big strong Ty, who had helped coach them in their techniques, to hold their boards. I was exhausted, but I did it anyways.
When my turn finally came, I was still exhausted. My heart rate had come down a bit, but my arms and legs felt like spaghetti. I set up my stations, going with old reliable, a side kick, and a reverse punch. The difference was I was using 3 boards on my reverse punch, and I was spinning during the side kick. Scary stuff, right? Right.
After receiving permission to proceed, I lined up my spinning side kick, and blew the boards into three pieces each. Everyone cheered. I lined up with my reverse punch, but my focus was broken by fatigue. I kept thinking, "I hope I'm not too tired to make this break." I threw everything I had into that punch, lost control of where my elbow was, and my hand bounced. I was awarded with two thunks for one punch. The two men holding my boards fell back a step from the impact. My hand hurt.
My instructor ordered my board holders to drop a board so I was attacking the standard two boards instead of three, and I reset my stations. I lined up with the punch first, because if I didn't make it, there was no sense in wasting the other boards. My hand hurt so bad. After receiving approval for my second attempt, I lined it up, and I hit the boards. Thunk. My hand hurt. I began my final attempt. Thunk. The crowd's groan drowned out my grunt of pain.
I turned to the judges' table at attention, waiting to be dismissed. I had once again failed. Instead of dismissing me, Master Woodson directed some of the other judges to take up a station for another break. I understood the point she was making. I had defeated myself. The boards couldn't defeat me, they were inanimate objects. I had failed another test, but now I was being given the opportunity to show everyone, and more importantly myself, that I really was a good martial artist.
I think the first one was a jumping, turning side kick. Broken.
Knifehand strike, broken (hit one of the board holders on the other side. Sorry).
Axe kick. Broken.
Spinning Heel Kick (sometimes called a Wheel Kick). Broken. (look at the knuckles on my right hand. It hurt a lot.)
Elbow Strike. Broken.
Jump Front Kick, Face Level. (Broken)
Round Kick, Face Level. Broken.
Side Kick. Broken.
Front Kick. Broken.
Palm Heel Strike. Broken.
These breaks were easy. I didn't spend time lining them up, I just did them. First attempt, all of them. I didn't follow the formalities of requesting permission, I just attacked. Master Woodson yelled out a technique, I destroyed the wood. Simple. It felt felt good to get out some of my frustration over failing my test by smashing things. Of course, a lot of these techniques were extraordinarily difficult and nobody attempted them in a test if they could help it. They were flashy and fun in demonstrations, but too easy to mess up for a test. I didn't care. I had already failed my test, so the pressure was off. I was just playing, now. I was showing off and enjoying the attention I was receiving from my fellow students and the spectators. See? When I was coaching you, I knew what I was talking about, I just choke on pressure. Master Woodson either ran out boards or ideas, because I was dismissed.
Spectators from upstairs found me after the testing ceremony to console me, and to tell me they though my instructor was unfair, making me break all those boards as punishment for failing. I told them I was grateful for it. It wasn't a punishment, it was a favour.
Afterwards, during the potluck dinner and awards ceremony, I sat and sincerely cheered and congratulated everyone on passing their tests. This certainly wasn't my first failed test, so there was no envy, no hard feelings, I was genuinely proud of everyone for passing their test, because I had helped teach a lot of them. After everyone else had been called up and given their new stripes or belts and their certificates, my name was called. I was shocked. I had no idea I was getting called. What was going on? Was I gonna have to break something else? My muscles were cold now, and my ass hurt from sitting on that chair, so I hoped not.
The judges had discussed and decided to award me my Third Dan because I obviously had the skill, and once I could ignore pressure, I could accomplish what I needed to accomplish. I was elated! Judging by the picture, I don't think Master Woodson was quite as excited as me, but there it was. I had earned my Third Dan. Nobody could dispute it, because I broke more boards than anyone in that school had ever seen.
Later in life, my instructor and I had a falling out, but that lesson has been such a valuable lesson in life. In my security career, I was always able to handle the pressure of any situation and make the intelligent decision, and in my hospitality management career, I could handle any level of rush in any department. Pressure is nothing. If you know your stuff, you can get through it.
Put your kids in martial arts training. I don't mean martial sports. I don't mean self defense. Find a more traditional art, like Karate, or Traditional Taekwondo (not Olympic). Find a good instructor, and they won't just learn kicks, punches, combinations, techniques, forms, and the like. They will learn how to be a good and successful person. Martial sports and self defense can come later in life. Learn to be a good person, then learn to be a good competitor.
Friday, July 8, 2016
Fight Back Against the Police!!! Wait, that was a bad idea...
Don't fight the police on the street. If you do, you'll get hurt. Fight them in the courtroom. That's what it's for. If you don't like the court system, vote for a candidate that will fix the court system, or run for office yourself.
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Tuesday, May 31, 2016
Changing our National Anthem, plus some brain-puking.
Thursday, February 18, 2016
Why I Call Myself a Jedi
I take part in religious discussions almost as often as political ones. Inevitably, this leads people to become curious about my own faith, and for several years I’ve claimed to be a Jedi. Invariably, this causes people to look at me funny. What varies is the meaning in the look. Sometimes it’s accusing me of being a wise-ass, sometimes it’s judging me to be a Star Wars fanboy. Either way, it destroys all my credibility on the topic and kills the conversation. While I can be a bit of a wise-ass, and I do like Star Wars, neither of these is the case. I’ve put a lot of thought into this version of faith. To understand how I came to this decision, you first must understand how I define God, and then how I interpret the Old Testament and the New.
God is not some dude sitting on a throne in the clouds with a righteous beard, as he is often depicted in pop culture. I think this is how churchgoers, Hollywood, and even preachers have come to picture him over the centuries. Not that I think our religious leaders picture him as the only 5-fingered character in the Simpsons, but they picture him as physically a man. The Holy Trinity of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit is a depiction of 3 separate entities that function interchangeably and simultaneously. Of course God must be a man, because we were created in His image, right? I’ll come back to that.
God is an intangible entity. God is love. God is goodness. God is life. You cannot see Him, but you can see evidence of Him, and if you open your heart and mind, you can feel Him. He is in everything, and every person. He is your conscience, your good idea, your urge to hold someone who is crying. The Chinese concept of chi is actually more accurate than the Western idea of a man. When we were created in His image, it doesn’t mean we were created with our eyes, hands, toes, and buttocks in the same place as the Almighty. This means we were created with His love, goodness, life, and conscience.
God’s angels in similar fashion, are not winged humans. That is an artistic representation by Michelangelo that was adopted by the subconscious of western culture. Angels are agents of God. They are his fingers, working for the goodness and love that is God. When someone feels like something isn’t quite right, so they check it out, that is angelic inspiration. When the investigate, find someone in need of help, and help them, they are an angel for the time being. If you’ve been stranded on the side of the road, but someone stops to help change your tire, you were helped by an angel.
The Bible is also very much taken too literally. If you’ve ever opened it, you’ve noticed it is subdivided into Testaments, Books, chapters, and verses. These individual verses are then taken out of context, studied, and argued about. Wars have been fought over individual verses of the Bible. The Old Testament was written by barely literate Hebrews living in the desert, based on divine inspiration and their own spin on life. It was written by them, and for them. Genesis, the story of creation, was written in such a way they could understand. There’s no way to explain eons, dinosaurs, ice ages, and evolution to them. If you lie the timelines of Creation and the Big Bang side by side, they look pretty similar. First, there was nothing, and God said, “Let there be light.” First, there was chaos in the form of an electron field, until electrons managed to bump into each other at just the right force and angle that a photon was created. It continues from there. Leviticus was written to help them survive and prosper. At the time, procreation was absolutely necessary for survival, so homosexuality was a bad thing. Tattoos were forbidden because they would die of hepatitis. The New Testament was written after Jesus of Nazareth denounced the old teachings, and the old churches, and taught his followers that times had changed and that it’s okay to not fight. It’s preferable to love one another.
Sometimes, we forget that science and religion are not exclusive of each other. Science is a method of study and discovery, not a belief system. Science has neither proven nor disproven the existence of God. It has proven the existence of goodness, and love, and conscience. That is God. That is the intangible entity that is God. That is the intangible force that makes us want to do good things. That intangible force is simplified to the Force, and my belief in that doesn’t make me a Christian in the traditional sense of the word, so I don’t identify with that definition. What can you call a man that believes in, and strives to understand, commune with, and serve the Force? The only way I could answer that question is: I am a Jedi.
Wednesday, January 27, 2016
Why I Hate Gender Neutrality
I believe strongly in equal importance of the sexes, and I believe that men and women's respective strengths and weaknesses complement each other in a yin-yang effect that is important to embrace for a successful and happy life.
I believe that men and women are intellectual equals. Women are naturally more compassionate, and men are naturally more analytical. This makes for an excellent balance in a society of equal rights.
I believe men are more physically suited for hard labour. Women are more physically suited for administrative, academic, or domestic roles. I say this while I work in an administrative role and I am the main cook at home, so I am fully aware that this is an over-generalization, but that doesn't make it less true. I'm definitely better suited to go throw square bales into the back of a truck than my wife is. This is true for most couples. Men's domination of leadership roles is strictly a leftover of the patriarchy, but is slowly lessening.
I believe that being a manly man is something to strive for and be proud of. I believe that being a womanly woman is something to strive for and be proud of. Being a manly man includes being in complete control of (sometimes out of touch with) his emotions, being a leader, some form of physical prowess, commanding the respect of betters, peers, and subordinates in equal measure, being able to put food on the table, and being responsible for the protection of loved ones. I also appreciate the "rites to manhood" like swimming in a mountain river, snaring food, hunting, fishing, camping, building fires, shaving, growing a beard, etc. I'll admit complete ignorance in what it takes to be a womanly woman, but I think it has something to do with being awesome in ways that I can't fathom while still having time to do her hair, but I don't know. I don't think men are meant to understand that. However, men can still tell on a subconscious level how womanly a woman is, and respect her for that.
I believe it is a positive thing to encourage children to learn to be manly men and womanly women. It's more important to encourage happiness of course, but there's nothing wrong with gender roles! My very young son likes to wear nail polish. That's fine, when he's old enough I'm still going to teach him how to sharpen a hunting knife. He'll just have to take it off when he's learning how to stalk a deer because I don't want the deer to smell it.
I believe the best successes are had in parenthood when there is a mother and father both in the household. Single parents or same-sex couples can do just fine, but I think it's more difficult for them.
I believe male and female emotions are very different in how they must be managed. It's a man's job to teach his son how, and a woman's job to teach her daughter how. This is one of the most important lessons of parenthood, because understanding the difference between delayed satisfaction and instant gratification can be the difference between a happy, successful life, or incarceration.
I believe that males and females should only be nude in the same room if they are consenting adults, or young children who don't know the difference but are accompanied by a trusted guardian. Adult men and women want to be nude together? Cool, where's the hot tub? Adults think it's okay to put boys and girls in the same change room? Nope, and I'll take a hard line on that.
I believe it is wrong to compel the overwhelming majority to make lifestyle changes for the comfort of a small minority. The minority must be protected from harm, and they are free to do what they wish as long as it hurts no one. However, it is up to the minority to adapt and compromise, not the other way around.
Wednesday, September 16, 2015
What I Want From My Government
- Stay out of my life. It's not your business what I put into my body, or do/have in my home. However, if you ask politely, and have a legitimate reason, I'll gladly give your agents a tour.
- Stay out of my business. Unless it has a direct effect on public safety, what I sell and how isn't your concern. How I run my business and what I'm willing to pay is also none of your concern, unless I am doing evil, like defrauding my customers, employees, or tax collectors.
- Keep me safe. Give police and military the training and tools necessary to protect me from people who would do me and mine harm. Allow them to perform their function, and hold them accountable with fair consideration for the position they're in.
- Don't waste time and resources. Pass legislation that makes sense and has a purpose. Don't just pass laws to keep the media saying nice things about you.
- Educate me. Education certainly isn't my right, but it is an investment that will almost always pay huge dividends to the community.
- Keep me healthy. Also not a right, but definitely an investment in the community. I can't contribute if I'm ill or injured, so give me a boost.
- Tax me fairly, in a way that makes sense. Current taxation is far too complicated. How many resources are wasted in simply interpreting the policies and procedures?